How to get out of an enslaved relationship
“I want out of the relationship but no matter what I try I can’t get out”. Have you ever said these words, in fact are you presently in a relationship that is reminiscent of slavery?
If you are then consider the following
•Men know that women are primarily emotional beings and that a woman will do almost anything for her man especially when he showers her with love and affection
•Men know that some women give sex to get love and so he tells her what she wants to hear -sweet nothing
•Men know that women value stability and so he reassures her that he will leave his wife so that they can be together
•Men know that women value family life and so he has a child with her so that he can have good excuse to visit her
•Men know that some women are desperately lonely so he offers companionship that has a price tag
•Men know that some Christian women are crying out for sexual release and so he presents himself as that source of release
•Men know that there is a shortage of good men and so he projects himself as a member of this extinct group. He conducts himself like a real gentleman so that he will be noticed
•Men know that some women are competitive by nature and so he pities them against each other so that they can prove to him who is the better lover
The truth is ladies men study you all and use the knowledge to their advantage. They know what makes you tick.
When you try to terminate a relationship but just cant muster the will to do it aren’t you in fact allowing Mr. Mention to continue to mess with your head space. Trust me he knows what he is doing
You really want to cut loose?
Consider the following
•Learn to love yourself and place high value on self preservation
•Having a baby for a man has never and will never hold a man
•Sex may keep him coming back but he will eventually move on to the next conquest
•Nine out of ten men wont leave there wives for the other woman so don’t hold your breath
•Let your heart line up with your head so that you can’t tell him don’t come back to your house, yet you leave the key to the front door in the flower pot or under the front door mat!
•Establish a modus operandi for visitation. So when he comes to look for the child set up boundaries for example the bedroom is out of bounds and maybe you need to slip on a house dress instead of parading around in the tights
Women get up stand for your right ……..the right to be respected
Women emancipate yourself from emotional and psychological slavery …none but yourself can free you of emotional bondage
Remember men know your weakness be strong
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